Got this today from a friend on Facebook, but the "share" option wasn't there so I'm putting it in my blog. What's the difference between a struggle and a challenge? A struggle is a burden. A challenge is an opportunity. A struggle is, "I can't wait for this to be done." A challenge is, "I can't wait to see where this goes." A struggle is being in one place, but needing to be in another. A challenge is fully being where you are, not needing to be anywhere else. A struggle is, "How can I get out?" A challenge is, "What more can I give?" A struggle is resistance. A challenge is acceptance. Think about something important to you that you're working on improving. A relationship, a project, a goal. Now think about the energy around the thing you picked. Are you in a struggle? Or are you in a challenge? On the surface a struggle and a challenge look like the same thing. They are both tough. The biggest difference though is the energy around them. Plain and simple, a struggle is a challenge that is filled with resistance. Is there something in your life that you're struggling with? Could that struggle be turned into a challenge? It can happen, all it takes is a mental shift. Happy Holidays! Dhru Purohit Clean Program

Things Just Keep Stirring Up!

I just did a long blog post, which I invite anyone to read and participate in. This last year continues to be the year that just keeps giving. My heart goes out to those who have challenges so much greater than mine. But as I said in my post, I still have to focus on my experience and appreciate it whenever I can.

Today started with the car...but it's not about the car!

December 17, 2012 Today started out for me with an upbeat personal vibration. The challenges of late have had me on a bit of a roller coaster, but today I felt pretty darn good! Heading to the office my car had a big orange light flashing, telling me to Check Hybrid Engine!!! I took it to my local mechanic and when he tried to look at it, the engine wouldn’t even start again. So my car had to be towed to Reno to a Lexus dealer, the only one who could work on the hybrid. My grand dog Action and I got a ride back home from the tow truck driver…. This definitely took down my upbeat vibration. I began to engage in a full blown pity party. This is not about the car, believe me!!! It’s about a lot more than that for me. First of all I KNOW there is a lot of sadness being felt, far greater than mine, in many many places and I am not in any way without compassion. And as compassionate as I am for others, this is my life and my experience and I am just trying to make sense out of it. The car for me I am hoping, is the last “outside” experience left to break. This last year has been a year of so many breaks….all kinds of relationships mostly with humans and this one just symbolized the nonhuman elements on the outside that I count on, on a day to day basis….broken. Today I found myself on my own, to just sit with this, no wheels to drive me to distraction. I just sit, and reflect, and meditate and pray and hope to come to a place of peace with this existence that has so many unanswered questions. On this small scale of mine, I know I am not alone. I know this has been a year of incredible breakdowns and changes. And I still want to figure it out, my part of it at least, that is the only part that is mine to look at. With all of the Radical Forgiveness training I have received from Colin Tipping, I have quite a toolbox. I also have 8 solid years of listening to the teachings of Abraham-Hicks. Today I pulled out one of my all time favorite books, The Nature of Personal Reality by Jane Roberts…A Seth Book. Here is some of what I read: “You must realize that you are indeed a probable you. Your experience is the result of beliefs. Your neuronal structure necessitates a certain focus so that other experiences counter to your conscious assumptions remain probable or latent. Alter the beliefs and any probable self can, within certain limitations, be actualized. “ “When you try to change your convictions in order to change your experience, you also have to first stop the momentum that you have already built up, so to speak.” “When you alter these conscious beliefs through effort, then a period of time is necessary while the structure learns to adjust to the new preferred situation. If beliefs are changed overnight, comparatively less time is required.” “In one way or another, through your conscious thought you attracted such an event, and drew it from probability into actuality. The occurrence would be an accumulation of energy – turned into action- and be brought about by corollary beliefs.” Yikes, this is Seth, and it is also parallel to the teachings of Abraham and I am certain many other teachers, but these two are who I have followed for so many years. And this is Radical Forgiveness…Look what I created!! So as I sit having a pity party, I acknowledge that I am definitely the one throwing the party from start to a finish that I am seeking, and hopefully, immediately! I own it and I also want to move through it now. Outside influences have been where my attention has been focused for I would humbly say most of my life. I am realizing that again and again and again, I want to be the opinion that matters most to me. That is my work! It should be really easy, but I am finding that it is also easy to hang on to victim consciousness if it is serving me…and I want to give up the need for that service. The car is just a car, I know that. But today the car played a very big role for me in my experience of this past year. I would like it to be the straw that woke up this camel. Abraham quite specifically says…”There is no bottom!!” So unless I stop the momentum it can continue on and on and I am not willing to ALLOW that to happen. I invite anyone who is interested to follow on this journey with me. As a Radical Forgiveness Coach, I am learning a very big lesson of these teachings for myself and I have no intention of letting them go to waste. If I were to do that, then I would be rolling over and not grasping the Challenge and the Opportunity being offered me for this lifetime. I am determined to let myself out of jail and get back onto the playground. And as I embark on this new journey, I hold all others who are having difficult experiences in prayer…because there is so much power in prayer.

Stepping In......

It's been six weeks now of new exploration and every day gets more exciting as I am really feeling my wholeness surfacing. Always listening to Abraham-Hicks, I find myself going deeper and deeper into myself. I’m letting go of personal blame, practicing Radical Self Forgiveness, doing some worksheets, diving into my real practice of “victimbusting” myself and it feels really good to know myself more and more. Having a beautiful dance experience this week added to my journey into me. I had an amazing miracle experience…ask me about my little purple flower. I had an amazing session today with Leigh Hurst, Awake and Aging…falling in love with myself. That’s my work and what I want before I can even think about being in another relationship. Appreciating the one I had but beginning to understand what it was that I didn’t see and what I attracted for a huge personal lesson. I needed to hit bottom in order to feel like I do today.

Moving On......

I have been so busy and so distracted that I am finding I have to wake up in the middle of the night to reconnect with what is really going on with me. At first these mid-morning callings were a little disconcerting but I am beginning to see that they are pushing me, gently into a beautiful new place of expansion. This morning I listened to some Abraham as I was reflecting from my place of "la la land" and I wrote down some of the words that mean so much to me: The question WE want to put to you for yourself is: At what point in my vibrational attraction, am I going to become consciously aware of what I am attracting? The whole point of being a deliberate creator is being someone who is deliberately aware, not just of what you are saying or observing, but deliberately aware of MY point of attraction. Deliberately aware of what I have vibrationally established. Deliberately aware of my grid. Once you have established a pattern, LOA brings things to it that match it. First feelings and thoughts, but then rendezvousing of all kinds of things. And more: You are much more than you see here in these physical bodies….who you are is nonphysical energy and who you are is this physical extension and when we talk about the art of allowing we are talking about is finding from your human perspective conscious awareness of what you are doing vibrationally so you can hold yourself more steadily, more often, more purposefully in vibrational alignment with that larger part of you. You are either allowing the fullness of who you are to flow or you have something that you are focused about in this moment that is taking you away from who you really are. Abraham – Alaska Cruise pieces of the introduction 8-19-12

Colin Tipping in Truckee

A week from today, on April 26th, Colin Tipping will be speaking at For Goodness Sake at 6:30. Colin is such a great speaker and represents what Radical Forgiveness stands for so well, I am imagining a great crowd will come to enjoy him. Then beginning on Friday the 27th of April, Colin will be facilitating his Miracles Workshop at my home for 15 people. This will be his third time doing this in Truckee, I feel so blessed to have Colin and Radical Forgiveness in my life. I now refer to my coaching practice as Radical Well Being. Colin has also done some shifting in assisting people to better understand the value of living free of resentments...the word "forgiveness" often distracts people from the true issue of accepting or not, life as a victim. His processes and tools have helped me so much in identifying when I am giving another responsibility for my life, rather than taking hold fully for my choices!
To learn more, see my website for Radical Well Being.

Thoughts on Radical Well Being

I am often confused about how to integrate my successful real estate business with my coaching of Radical Well Being. Beginning with Radical Forgiveness, I became certified with the Institute for Radical Forgiveness. Because of my basic foundation and belief in the Law of Attraction, the next logical step was to become certified in Radical Manifestation. Since 2004 I have been fully grounded in LOA with Abraham-Hicks and that work is naturally incorporated into all phases of my life. Last year if became very comfortable with changing the name of my coaching practice to Radical Well Being.

Last month I found a book called "God Goes To Work" by Tom Zender. I now understand how easily it is to incorporate all of what I am passionate about into my one being just by always holding onto my strong spiritual beliefs and not finding any need to separate anything out depending on a particular hat I might be wearing.

I found a tremendous sense of relief with this knowing. I am joining a group of 12 next month in teleconferencing around this topic. I am so excited to start!

Colin Tipping Coming to Truckee

As a Radical Forgiveness and Radical Manifestation Coach I am once again thrilled to be able to host Colin Tipping in my home to perform his signature Miracles Workshop April 27-April 29, 2012.
This work has been important to me personally as well as professionally. I have incorporated my spiritual views into my business, selling real estate. It has allowed me to work clearly and in focus with my clients. As I like to say..."if you're willing to own it, I'll help you find it." Over the years I have found that it is easy to be distracted when making decisions about most things and at the same time, it can be easy to gain focus and decide.
I love working where I work,and doing what I do and finding people who want to focus on their goals with me.
There are only 15 slots in this workshop and it is almost full. I invite anyone to check out Colin's site, read more about this workshop and sign up. It is life changing, no matter what is happening in your life.